Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Religion is Good for Self-Control


Based on a report published in the upcoming issue of the Psychological Bulletin, religious belief and piety promote self-control (see For Good Self-Control, Try Getting Religious About It in the NY Times, as well as the original study).

So self-proclaimed heathen and non-believer NY Times science columnist John Tierney wonders whether he should start going to church. The article's authors are careful to point out that faking it probably won't result in the desired effect. Studies have found that true believers gain benefits from attending services but non-believers who follow the same practice do not. However, researcher Michael McCullough suggests that public involvement with an organization that has strong ideals can provide secularists with a similar result. "People can have sacred values that aren’t religious values,” he said. “Self-reliance might be a sacred value to you that’s relevant to saving money. Concern for others might be a sacred value that’s relevant to taking time to do volunteer work."

Here's a place that provides that opportunity: The Ethical Culture Society. And guess what? It's religious about it.

Monday, December 29, 2008

Winter Festival Covered by the Bergen Record


Here's a nice article in the Record about yesterday's solstice festival:

Winter solstice 'a time of great hope'

By Ashley Kindergan

Christmas and Hanukkah get the lion's share of holiday attention in December.

But for a group of humanists who gathered at the Ethical Culture Society of Bergen County on Sunday afternoon to mark the winter solstice, a sense of community and the symbolic turning point of the shortest day of the year were cause enough for celebration. The actual solstice, the shortest day of the year, occurred on Dec. 21, but the celebration was postponed because of inclement weather.

"This is a way a humanist movement like Ethical Culture can plug itself into the celebration of the season," said Joseph Chuman, the center's leader.

The Ethical Culture Society bills itself as a religious movement focused on the welfare of human beings rather than the existence of a deity or transcendental force guiding the universe. Collecting money to build homes for unwed mothers and working for asylum seekers in the Elizabeth Detention Center are among the congregation's principal causes, for example.

More here…

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Ethical Progeny

Rebecca Gopoian and husband David Heatley collaborated on this cartoon (click here) published recently in The New York Times. Rebecca is a graduate of the ECS/Bergen Sunday school and the daughter of members Bea and Steve Gopoian. This will resonate with you if you're in, or the product of, a mixed marriage.

See if you can find Bea and Steve in the strip!

Rebecca Gopoian: Godless & Penniless

This blogger is a little late in the posting, but check out the NY Times cartoon editorial from Rebecca Gopoian and husband David Heatley. Rebecca is the daughter of long-time ECS members Steve and Bea ("Pine Cone Necklace") Gopoian.

The cartooning couple had a piece published in The Times the previous holiday season.

Saturday, November 15, 2008

How an Obama Administration Would Be Good For Ethical Culture

Barack Obama's stunning victory is a transformative event in American politics and in the American image. Bringing it home, it might also be very good for Ethical Culture, and the Bergen Society should try to build on it. Here's why:

1. An Obama presidency will open space on the ground for the re-emgergence of progressive grass-roots activism to which Ethical Culture has been historically dedicated.

2. It has mobilized large new sectors of the American public, thus underscoring that the commitment to causes, issues and ideals larger than the self is necessary and fulfilling. This sense of commitment is a manistay of Ethical Culture's institution building.

3. It has restored an element of intelligence to public discourse. For a long time, American society starting in the Oval Office has nurtured a dangerous and foolish anti-intellectualism. No one said, "I'm for Obama because he is kind of guy I would like to have a beer with." Rather his campaign was thoughtful, high-minded, without being condescendingly high-brow or off-putting. Intelligent analysis and discourse was the name of the game. He appealed to Americans on this basis.

Ethical Culture is a thoughtful movement which values reflection on the self, society and the world. A new intellectual climate should be good for us.

Let's build on these possibilities forcefully and without defensiveness.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Why not be good for goodness sake?

The American Humanist Association is embarking on an advertising campaign on Washington DC Metrobuses.  Here's an article about the campaign from the Washington Post:


Wednesday, November 12, 2008; Page B03

If you sometimes find yourself praying for a seat on a crowded Metrobus, some atheists have a message for you: Don't bother.

They would say that, wouldn't they? Prayer's not their thing. And starting Tuesday they'll be bringing their unique brand of holiday message to area commuters. Advertisements will begin popping up on Metrobuses in the District that read: "Why believe in a god? Just be good for goodness' sake."

At a news conference at the National Press Clubyesterday, members of the American Humanist Association -- one of the country's leading atheist and agnostic organizations -- explained what they're up to.

"Our message is that all of us can have moral values as a natural result of who we are as a species and who we have become as a civilization," said Fred Edwords, the association's director of communications. "Each one of us knows what it means, generally, to be ethical."

Read the rest here.

Thursday, November 06, 2008

Obama and the Generations

One of the things I will have to assimilate into my understanding of an Obama presidency is that he is not of my generation. He is the first person to be elected president who is younger than I am, and by quite a bit.

In fact, Obama is closer to the generation of my students and my children than he is to mine. He is not a baby boomer, and this makes a difference in how we respectively organize our political understanding of the world. Barack Obama is not a product of the New Left, nor did he participate in the Civil Rights Movement nor the anti-War Movement.

What this may boil down to is that he does not articulate his politics through much of an ideological lens, nor a strident lens of a moral rectitude or ethical categories. (I am struck at not only how few references to the Civil Rights Movement he made during his campaign, but how his discourse differs from the moral language of Martin Luther King, for example, whose prophetic oratory was riddled with references to justice, and the Manichean dichotomies of good and evil).

We hear little of this from Obama. He seems to be all pragmatism, and given his stated commitment to unify the American people, his pragmatism adheres well with his aspirations.

We have entered a new era. It may not be fully mine as the world turns on, but I remain hopeful.

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

OBAMA!

It is more than a political victory -- It's a world-historical moment. Out of the history of American racism, replete with slavery, lynching, apartheid and hatred for the black man, the emergence of Barack Obama as president, reflects shifts in the American landscape -- demographic, political ethical -- which are simply monumental and unimaginable just a short while ago.

Yes, America is changing - from a white-dominant society to an ethnically and racially pluralistic one. It is also changing in its political appreciation of racism. Both the Civil Rights movement of 40 years ago, and the "cultural left," with its doctrines of inclusion and tolerance, have made an Obama victory possible. Moreover, the younger the generations see color less, and humanity more; perhaps a real advance for the universalistic values inherent in humanism.

But Obama's was more than a political campaign; it was a movement. One of the extraordinary features of this almost flawless political campaign was the grassroots engagement of young people, and of constituencies in which political involvement had grown apathetic, cynical and bloodless. Building upon this foundation of activism will be one of Obama's greatest challenges.

There is also great moral power in the imagery of an Obama presidency. It speaks to an American audience with the promise of what is possible and the message that nothing is pre-ordained. And it speaks to an international audience about the resilience of American democracy, and the potency of such ideals as inclusion, equality and opportunity.

Though he will enter office with unprecedented challenges, which may submerge the productivity of his vision, for the moment the Obama triumph occupies a unique position in American history and the American experience.

It is time for us to feel good about ourselves.

Saturday, November 01, 2008

This I Believe: Evan Gross


Bergen Ethical Sunday school graduate and former YES national president Evan Gross spoke at a recent St. Louis Ethical Society Platform. Evan, son of Bergen President Ed Gross and past President Diana Gross, was one of three panelists who addressed the Society on the theme of "This I Believe".

The talk, which was deeply personal, was given on September 27, 2008. It can be heard here (search for "gross").

This I Believe is a popular NPR radio segment, and is based on Edward R. Murrow's 1950's radio program of the same name.

Jesus Sent Home from Paramus School


In what may be an historic first, Jesus' mother (whose first name, according to a Bergen Record article, is not Mary) was called to take him home early from school.

In an amusing twist of an early season Christmas, eighth-grader Alex Woinski dressed up for Halloween as Jesus. He was told by his Vice Principal, according to The Record, that "the costume was offensive to certain children" and he'd have to go home. (The Paramus Superintendent told the Record that Alex was not asked to go home, but rather to remove his fake beard and crown of thorns. He then chose to go home so he could take off the costume.)

In an interesting side note, a commentator on The Record's website who claims to be West Brook Middle School teacher Barry Marcello proclaims "This concern came from fellow Christians who thought this outfit (especially the thorns) were a bit over the top! ... I am a Christian. JESUS IS SACRED--not something to be poked fun at on Halloween. School administrators are afraid nowadays thanks to people like you who are ready to publicly 'crucify' them for any decisions they make." Take this fellow with a grain of salt, though. There is no teacher listed on the school's website with the name he claims. (Reader comments can be viewed at the bottom of the article.)

Sunday, October 05, 2008

Ethical Culture: Fear the Name


Who would have thought we'd see the phrase "fear the name" used in reference to the Ethical Culture Society of Bergen County?

Charles Stile of the Bergen Record reports in today's column (click, then search for "ethical culture") that Bergen Grassroots offered to sponsor a debate between Democratic county freeholders and their Republican challengers. According to Stile, the Republicans accepted but the Democrats declined. Speculating as to the reason, Stile ruminates that "maybe they fear that name of the debate's venue — the meeting hall of the Ethical Culture Society of Bergen County". True, Charles, it stands as a paragon of ethics!

According to their spokesman Bill Maer, the Democrats "... had a scheduling conflict, and we certainly worked hard to accommodate the organization's schedule." The contending slates debated under sponsorship of the AARP in September and are scheduled to do so again on October 13.

Monday, September 22, 2008

Lori Lipman Brown Addresses Bergen Society


Lori Lipman Brown, Director of the Secular Coalition for America, addressed the Ethical Culture Society of Bergen County on Sunday. Ms. Brown described three years of ups and downs since the 2005 activation of the SCA, the national lobby representing the interests of atheists, humanists, agnostics, freethinkers and other nontheistic Americans. During this time the SCA's staff has grown from one to five (including two part-timers). By and large, according to Ms. Brown, her efforts have been respectfully received by members of congress, their staffers and the general public.

In light of the presidential election, the SCA has published an online resource for where the Presidential and Vice Presidential candidates stand on issues important to secular voters and their allies. The website, Secular Values Voter (tm) Resources is a potent source of information that can be used to compare the positions of the major party candidates.

Also touted during her address is the SCA's Action Alert page, which can notify interested citizens of opportunities to influence elected officials on federal legislation affecting the rights and values of nontheistic Americans. This reporter can attest to the ease and discretion surrounding this service. If you want to have an impact, sign up for the Action Alert page.

The Platform was attended by an estimated 70 people.

Saturday, August 30, 2008

Lori Lipman Brown on Colbert Report

Lori Lipman Brown, Director and chief lobbyist of the Secular Coalition for America, is hot! In addition to her earlier appearance on the O'Reilly Factor, she recently appeared on the Colbert Report's Better Know a Lobby segment (6:56):


and (1:22):


Stephen Colbert's first order of business is to develop (often absurd) comic situations for the benefit of his audience. Unlike mainstream "serious" interviewers he frequently uses the interviewee as a foil for his gags. This irreverent approach lets America laugh at itself, often at the direct expense of a prominent and serious minded public personality.

Lori is in very good company insofar as Colbert has done this with senators, congresspersons, governors and the like. In the 5 1/2 minute aired portion of Lori's interview for example, he quickly steered the topic to Lori's lobbying efforts on behalf of sex education so he could then sidle his way to sex. He followed that with a rendition of God Bless America, which framed nicely, one must agree, with his earlier attempt to swear in Lori on a bible. Very funny stuff.

Lori held up well, exhibiting the patience and professionalism that has been so effective in her nascent role as America's chief nontheist lobbyist. With their logo displayed repeatedly on this highly popular late night television show, the Secular Coalition for America's mission statement was excerpted in an on-screen graphic: "...to protect and strengthen the secular character of our government".

Lori was able to tell America that the SCA was created "because nontheists felt they needed a voice in Congress [as] they ... watch[ed] their tax dollars ... spent on faith-based schemes", including "children learn[ing] bible stories in science class". All the gags and silliness aside, this is the kind of publicity the doctor ordered. Well done, Lori!

Lori Lipman Brown is scheduled to address the Ethical Culture Society of Bergen County on Sunday, September 21, 2008, at 11:00AM.

Wednesday, August 06, 2008

How Star Trek Helped Boost Obama Into Orbit

If Barack Obama can claim political star power, perhaps Star Trek has had something to do with it.

I am surprised that no one has seemingly mentioned it. For anyone who is or was a Star Trek fan, the character Seven of Nine, who appeared in the third instantiation of the series, is simply unforgettable.

Played by the actress, Jeri Ryan, the hyper-curvaceous half alien/half human, like Barack Obama himself, had problems in finding and articulating an integral identity.

But to the point: Jeri Ryan had been married to former Goldman Sachs millionaire, Jack Ryan, who faced off in the 2004 Illinois senate race against Obama. During the race, court records, documenting the Ryans' earlier divorce, were made public at the prompting of the press. Among the proceedings were salacious allegations by Ms. Ryan that her husband took her to strip clubs around the world and insisted that she engage in public sexual activity, which she refused.

These revelations summarily ditched Jack Ryan's senatorial aspirations. The Republican party quickly replaced him with the irrepressible, but hapless, Alan Keyes, whom Barack Obama handily defeated for the senate seat, thus positioning him for launch into the presidential race.

It is likely that Obama would have defeated Ryan in any event, but no one, including Barack Obama, could be certain. Nor can we be certain, if Obama wins the White House this November, to what extent Star Trek would be a factor in that victory.

Monday, August 04, 2008

Bergen Record Covers China Discussion

The recent Sunday discussion Human Rights in China, which was held at the Ethical Culture Society building in Teaneck, received newspaper coverage by the Bergen Record (Is Outrage Over China Overblown?). Members Peter Haring and Joey Dobbs were mentioned in the article, as was moderator Dan Rosenblum. Attendance was estimated at 25 people.

Coverage was by Hugh Morley, staff writer for the Record.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

Lori Lipman Brown: Coming to Teaneck

Lori Lipman Brown, Director/Lobbyist for the Secular Coalition for America, has agreed to address the Ethical Culture Society on Sunday, September 21, 2008. The SCA is the first and only organization that lobbies Congress on behalf of nontheists. See their mission statement here.

A former Nevada state senator, Lori has frequently appeared on television, radio and print media, including this appearance on The O'Reilly Factor (Lori appears at about minute 1:20):

and this interview by Gregory Walsh:


The American Ethical Union (AEU), national organization of Ethical Culture, is a member of the SCA.

Friday, July 04, 2008

Opening: Robert Gulack's Six Husbands of Elizabeth the Queen


How much of a shove would it take to turn Tudor history on its ear?

The whole world knows the story of Elizabeth I and how she safeguarded her power by refusing to marry. But - if the tiniest accident had gone the other way - how might the legend of her life and loves have turned out? Might Shakespeare's Virgin Queen have become the Liz Taylor of the 1500s?

Six Husbands of Elizabeth the Queen
From July 5 to July 19, 2008, at the air-conditioned Parker Theater, 123 East 24th St. (between Park & Lex), Love Creek Productions will present Robert Gulack's "Six Husbands of Elizabeth the Queen," a play in two acts about one woman's private history in a universe just a little different than our own. (Bob Gulack is an occasional ECS/Bergen Platform speaker and Socrates Cafe attendee.) As befits a story set in this period, the entire spoken text of the play is in the form of Shakespearean sonnets. Music for this production has been composed by the Emmy-Award-winning composer Larry Hochman (Tony nominee for Spamalot). You may reserve seats by calling (212) 769-7973. Beginning June 23, you may purchase tickets on the Internet via theatermania.com. Tickets are $18.

Performance dates and times: 7/5 8 PM, 7/6 3 & 7 PM, 7/8-7/11 8 PM, 7/12 6 PM, 7/13 3 & 7 PM, 7/18 8 PM, 7/19 3 & 8 PM. More info.

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Other Sunday Schools Like Ours

From the Washington Post comes an article about the variety of non-Christian Sunday Schools in the Washington DC area:

Non-Christians Learn Sunday School Value

If you think Sunday school is just for Christians, think again.

Each Sunday morning, thousands of children show up in classrooms at houses of worship across the Washington area. But instead of learning about Jesus Christ, the Trinity and stories from the New Testament, they study the Koran, the Bhagavad Gita and the Torah. They learn about Indian culture, memorize Arabic or Hebrew, or explore an atheist path to ethical living.

It's all part of a rich pastiche of lessons developed over the decades for the children of those in non-Christian faiths -- including Jews in Cleveland Park, Muslims in Sterling, Hare Krishnas in Potomac and humanists on 16th Street NW -- that take place on the traditional Christian day of worship.

"That's when people are available and that's when they're used to dealing with matters of faith and philosophy," said Roy Speckhardt, executive director of the D.C.-based American Humanist Association. It recently announced that it wants to dramatically expand its "secular Sunday schools" from a handful to all of its 125 chapters around the country.

In the Hindu faith "there is nothing in the tradition which mandates Sunday as particularly sacred," said Vineet Chander, a spokesman for the Hare Krishna movement. Formally known as the International Society for Krishna Consciousness, it is a branch of Hinduism.

But in the United States, Sunday "becomes a practical choice," Chander said.

For many minority faiths, Sunday education involves teaching children about more than just their religion. It is a time for immersion in language, culture and tradition that children probably will not encounter outside their families and their religious communities.

At the Hare Krishna temple in Potomac, "we try to include the culture along with the religion," said teacher Vidarbha Suta. Children learn about Indian life along with delving deeply into their faith.

The Jewish faith offers Sunday school, even though its Sabbath runs from sundown Friday through sundown Saturday. For Reform and Conservative synagogues, as well as some Orthodox ones, Sunday mornings are a time for younger children to learn about their religion and the Jewish culture in preparation for their bar or bat mitzvahs.

Hundreds of children, from kindergarten through seventh grade, spend their Sunday mornings at Washington Hebrew Congregation's Cleveland Park synagogue or at its suburban center in Potomac. There, they spend half their time learning Hebrew and the other half on Judaic studies, such as Bible stories and Jewish history, Rabbi Joui Hessel said.

Sunday religious programs for Muslim children are also a well-established tradition in the United States. The All Dulles Area Muslim Society (ADAMS), one of the largest mosques in the D.C. area, offers morning and afternoon sessions for 500 children at its Sterling location, ADAMS spokesman Rizwan Jaka said. Along with studying the Koran, the children learn Arabic, socialize, play sports and do community service work. The usual Islamic day of worship is Friday.

And now humanists have launched an ambitious effort to expand their Sunday school programs. Pointing to a 2006 poll, which estimates that between 14 and 18 percent of Americans consider themselves atheists, agnostics, humanists or not religious, humanists see a big demand for their own education programs.

In May, the American Humanist Association announced the launch of the Kochhar Humanist Education Center in Northwest D.C. to develop a curriculum for the humanist equivalent of Sunday school.

Children, and eventually adults, will learn about the history of secular humanism; the basics of critical thinking; values and virtues like humility, empathy and courage; the basics of evolution; conflict resolution; human rights; and the separation of church and state.

They'll also receive a solid grounding in the world's religions, said Bob Bhaerman, education coordinator for the Kochhar center.

At the Washington Ethical Society, a humanist religious community on 16th Street NW with about 300 members, Sunday school is already well established. Children start in nursery school and progress through high school.

The overarching goal: "Children learn to be kind and fair and get an opportunity to create a better world for all," Sunday school director Peggy Goetz said.

This week, the younger children started class by gathering in a semi-circle. Adam Bogomolov, 9, lit a candle, a bell was struck and the class recited its creed:

We are an ethical community -- a community of open minds, caring hearts and helping hands. Together we work to bring peace and justice to the world.

They made bookmarks for Father's Day, then worked in the garden, where they are growing tomatoes and peppers as a way of learning about the interconnected web of life, Goetz said.

Michele and Jeff Kuhn joined the ethical society six years ago. They said they want their children -- Michelle's 15-year-old daughter, Sarah Strohminger, and their two-year-old son, Jonathan -- to have a humanist religious education.

"No Sunday school was never an option," Jeff Kuhn said. The core values of their Sunday school are the same as the core values of any religion, he said, adding, "It's about love and love of community and justice and being a part of a community."

Meet SCA's Lori Lipman Brown on July 26

As of the recent AEU Assembly, the American Ethical Union is now a member of the Secular Coalition for America, the Washington, DC, based lobbying organization whose mission includes "increas[ing] the visibility and respectability of nontheistic viewpoints in the United States". (The AEU is the national umbrella organization for all Ethical Culture Societies.) As reported earlier in this blog, the SCA counts among its Directors some of the most prominent "new atheists", including Richard Dawkins and Sam Harris, as well as author Salman Rushdie.

Lori Lipman Brown, the SCA's fulltime lobbyist, is coming to New York City for a meet-and-greet titled A Skeptic Goes to Washington, hosted by the NYC Skeptics. The event is free and open to the public. Show your support for the importance of nontheist issues on the national scene by attending. Then report your impressions as comments to this blog post. Your freedom is important!

Friday, June 13, 2008

"Don't Believe in God?": Billboard Travels Down Turnpike to Philly

Remember the "Don't Believe in God? You Are Not Alone" guy? Heee's baaack! Well, he's in the Philadelphia area ... and getting some provocative exposure from Fox News.

Check out our blog entries here, here and here. Then click the video link you'll find in the Fox News story here. Fair and balanced? You decide.

You can also read the Philadelphia Inquirer's coverage here.

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Member news: Chairman Paul Eisenman

Recently minted Bergen Ethical member Paul Eisenman is the beneficiary of some publicity, thanks to Charles Stile's column in today's Bergen Record. Eisenman is chairman of Bergen Grassroots, which led an unsuccessful effort to unseat Joseph Ferriero as chairman of the Bergen County Democratic Organization (BCDO). Stile's column focuses on the ongoing factionalism that has arisen in the Bergen County Democratic Party.

Paul joined the Society in 2008.

Monday, June 09, 2008

Evan Gross: Bergen's Own is St. Louis Panelist

You can take the boy out of Bergen, but you can't take Bergen out of the boy.

Bergen Ethical's Evan Gross, second generation Ethical Culturist and Membership Administrator for the Ethical Society of St. Louis, participated as a panelist in the St. Louis Society's June 1, 2008, Platform. The topic was The future of Ethical Societies. Click here to listen to a poised, charismatic and accomplished young man reminisce about his Bergen past and speculate about the ethical future. Along with co-panelists Tara Klein, Matt Herndon and facilitator Elizabeth Mullhall, Evan represents the finest hope for the future of religious humanism.

Evan is the son of Ed and Diana Gross of the Bergen Society.

Saturday, June 07, 2008

Swim to benefit sunday school

On Sunday, June 29, I will be doing a swimming race (two miles) around Governors Island, which is in the river between Manhattan and Brooklyn. It is sponsored by the Manhattan Island Foundation which is a nonprofit that promotes environmental awareness and conservation. The waters around Manhattan are the cleanest they have been in 100 years, and events like this may help to keep it that way. I did one of their shorter races a few years ago, and was surprised to find that the water really was pretty clean, and did not taste as bad as I thought it would.

Part of the MIF's mission is to help fund swimming lessons for underprivileged children. The organization encourages swimmers to have others "sponsor" them by making online donations in the swimmer's name for the event in which the swimmer is competing. Half of the funds raised goes to the Manhattan Island Foundation to use for their environmental and educational efforts.

The best part is that the other half goes to a charity of the swimmer's choosing. Devon suggested that the other half should go to the Ethical Culture Sunday School, and I agreed that this was a great idea. The link to the MIF race is pasted below:
http://www.nycswim.org/Event/Event.aspx?event_id=1803&from=course

It would be great if we could get as many people to contribute as possible. The donate form for the Governors Island Swim is at: https://www.nycswim.org/About/DonateForm.aspx?from=UserBio&Swimmer_ID=102028&Event_ID=1801

Click "Donation" link on User Pre-Register page
Click "Make a Donation" link
Follow Donate Form instructions below

· Event: select the event name (“Governors Island Swim 2008”) from the drop down box. You may have to wait a few seconds while the database is accessed and the screen refreshes.
· Donation is for: select "Support a Swimmer".
· In Support of: Select David Wallman from the drop down box.
· $ Amount: Enter the total amount of your donation.
· Message: If you would like, you may type in a short message for the swimmer that will be publicly viewable.

* You may also need to retype your email address if copy and paste does not work.

Thanks for your support.

David

Wednesday, May 28, 2008

"Shame" is a Four-Letter Word

I sent a letter to the editor (of The Record) regarding the closing of the FAITH facility and Peter's Place in Hackensack by the city powers. The closings resulted from the city’s refusal to authorize the groups to continue via some kind of licensing or permit.

My letter was one of three letters that took exception to a letter from the head of a business organization that applauded the city's and county's actions. It is unusual for the Record to print letters in response to letters.

The editor chose to exclude 3 very tiny parts of my letter … irksome, in general ... but one is very troubling in a larger sense.

The first excision was a footnote reminding readers that Peter’s Place was named for Ethical Culture’s deceased and much beloved member, Peter Jacobsohn.

The second omission was a two-word exclamation: “Wake up!” which preceded: “There will always be those who suffer every day ... who will never be ‘cured’ by a long-term solution.”

Most importantly, they omitted my closing words: "Shame, shame on you and Hackensack!"

It seems that "shame" is a four-letter word.

“Shaming” used to lead to shunning, a powerful religious sanction. It resulted in a total ostracism from the community. Would that it still had some effect.

Our nation’s administration, members of congress, agency heads and presidential appointees exhibit no shame. They deny guilt and stonewall investigations or try to prevent discovery or destroy records, but even when caught, never say: "I am sorry" and never admit shame. The guilty are defiant or believe their only crime was getting caught. Why? Do they not feel any shame? If not, why not? Is there no moral and ethical undergirding, thus the term is irrelevant?

Why didn’t the editor keep the denouncement in my letter? Is there a taboo on accusations or judgments of that sort? Does it not reflect where I am coming from? Rightly or wrongly, I represent a humanist religious organization whose very name proclaims ethics! And therefore morals. And therefore the right to say j’accuse.

Sure, the editor can hide behind saying the letter was too long (by six words), but I suspect something else. Wouldn’t you?

Bob Gordon
President, Ethical Culture Society of Bergen County

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

NY Times Archives: Thousands of Articles on Ethical Culture

History fans are in for a treat. The New York Times online archives has thousands of articles containing the phrase "Ethical Culture", many of which, according to Times' policy, are freely available (you will need a free NY Times online ID after viewing three articles). Other articles require a NY Times subscription ID, and yet others are available only to Premium subscribers.

Here is a sampling of articles published prior to 1920 that are freely available (if you're not logged in you may be prompted to do so after the first few articles). (Warning: I received a few error messages. If this happens, either refresh the web page or close the browser window and try again):
To search on your own, follow these steps (remember, you may need a NY Times online ID, and perhaps more for certain articles):
  1. Go to the NY Times home page

  2. Type "ethical culture" (with quotes) in the search field just under the NY Times banner

  3. Select one of the following from the dropdown list to the right of the search field according to your whim: NYT Archive since 1981 or NYT Archive 1851 - 1980 (this is more fun!)

  4. Click Search
Advanced Search options are also available. Have fun!

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Paul Raynault: 1940 - 2008


It is with great sadness that this blog mourns the passing of Paul Raynault, Ethical Culture member of 35 years, who passed away on Monday. Read his obituaries in both the Bergen Record and his beloved Student World Assembly, of which he was the founder.

Paul was a frequent attendee at Ethical Culture events, often hosted by he and wife Shelley in their home. Many is the hors doeuvre that Paul saved from obscurity by grabbing an abandoned tray and offering them to party guests. Paul would do this both at his own parties and those of his friends; wherever, it seemed, hors doeuvres were languishing. This was but one way, if perhaps the humblest, in which Paul served those both near and far to him.

You are missed.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Time Magazine 1966: Ethical Culture's Maturity


Thirty-two years ago today, on May 20, 1966, an article titled Ethical Culture's Maturity appeared in Time Magazine. It makes for interesting reading in a historical context.

Friday, May 09, 2008

Donate to Myanmar Relief via AHA

The following appeared in my inbox:

As the full extent of the devastation from Cyclone Nargis in Myanmar (Burma) is revealed to the outside world, we have seen an outpouring of desire from members of humanist communities around the nation and the globe, to provide financial assistance to support the victims of the cyclone.

The American Humanist Association's relief arm, Humanist Charities, is working to identify secular, grassroots organizations that are in Myanmar (Burma), or have been operating from nearby countries. We have not finalized which organization we will be supporting, because of the scarce number of non-governmental, civil society and relief organizations that are currently operating in Myanmar (Burma).

Even with organizations that have had a history in Myanmar (Burma)---such as the Mae Tao Clinic, which provides free health care for refugees, migrant workers, and other individuals who cross the border from Burma to Thailand---their actions may currently be blocked or significantly reduced by the military junta in Myanmar (Burma).

Humanist Charities is now accepting donations for the relief efforts in Myanmar (Burma). Money donated will temporarily be held by Humanist Charities until we have located an appropriate relief agency that can make the largest impact among the survivors of Cyclone Nargis.

Donating to Humanist Charities is fast, secure and allows humanists the comfort of knowing that your money will be an unambiguous humanist means of supporting relief efforts during this current crisis.

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Sunday, May 04, 2008

Paver Dedication

The sun emerged from its early morning stupor to shine on the dedication of the Bergen Ethical Society's recently installed paver walkway. Paving stones are inscribed with remembrances of the past and hopes for the future.

The following photos were taken prior to the event, which was attended by NJ State Senator Loretta Weinberg, Teaneck mayor Elie Katz and American Ethical Union Executive Director Katharine Archibald, plus over 100 friends and members.

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Give me the lesson without the spin

An op ed piece from the Los Angeles Times by Kearny High School student and Humanist Matthew LaClair:

Throughout my life, my teachers have told me that school is a neutral environment where my classmates and I can count on teachers and textbooks to provide us with the factual and unbiased information that will equip us for life. Lately, though, I’ve begun to wonder whether they really mean it.

In my junior year of high school in New Jersey, my U.S. history teacher used the first week of class to preach his religious beliefs. He told students, among other things, that they “belong in hell” if they reject Jesus as their savior, that evolution and the Big Bang are ridiculous and unscientific theories, and that there were dinosaurs on Noah’s Ark.

When I confronted him in the principal’s office, he denied making the remarks. What he didn’t realize was that I had recorded the classes. But even after I informed school officials what had happened, they ignored my concerns. So after more than a month, my parents and I took the news to the media.

At first, I was harassed and intimidated by other students. School officials ignored the harassment and even a death threat I received.

Only after the story became national news did the school district begin to take us seriously. After lengthy negotiations (and against continuing opposition from the school board), we finally persuaded the district to address the teacher’s false and inappropriate remarks. The Anti-Defamation League was brought in to teach the faculty about the separation of church and state, and experts in the fields of church-state separation, evolution and cosmology came to our school to conduct assemblies.

After that, I thought I was done with controversy for a while. But now, in my senior year, I am back in the midst of it. In one of my classes, we use the 10th edition of “American Government” by James Q. Wilson, a well-known conservative academic, and John J. DiIulio, a political scientist and former head of President Bush’s Office of Faith-Based and Community Initiatives. (2005).

The text contains a statement, repeated three times, that students may not pray in public schools. In this edition of the text, the authors drive the point home with a photograph of students holding hands and praying outside a school. The caption reads: “The Supreme Court will not let this happen inside a public school.”

I knew this was false. In fact, students are allowed to pray in schools; courts have ruled many times that a student’s right to pray may not be abridged. What’s generally impermissible is state-sponsored prayer, in which school officials lead prayer or students are called on or required to pray. It seemed clear to me that the purpose of the discussion in the textbook was to indoctrinate, not to educate.

Continued reading revealed numerous other instances of bias, as well as erroneous and misleading statements. For example, the section on global warming begins with a few well-chosen words to set the tone: “It is a foolish politician who today opposes environmentalism. And that creates a problem because not all environmental issues are equally deserving of support. Take the case of global warming.”

The authors neglect to mention the growing scientific consensus on this subject. They dismiss those who are concerned about global warming — that is, the overwhelming majority of scientists — as “activists” motivated not by data but by “entrepreneurial politics.” Those who deny or downplay it are described as “skeptical scientists.”

Pointing out dissent within the scientific community is appropriate. Suggesting that the majority, but not the minority, is politically motivated is not appropriate. If a controversy truly exists, then the authors should not instruct students which side to “support.”

I contacted a not-for-profit group called the Center for Inquiry. It enlisted support from scientists, including James Hansen, NASA’s top climate scientist, and organizations, including Friends of the Earth and People for the American Way, to address concerns about the textbook.

What is most distressing is not that some public school teachers preach their religion, or that some authors put politics ahead of education. It is that it is so rare for anyone to call them on it. This text is widely used. Yet to my knowledge, no one has challenged these incorrect and misleading statements.

As Americans, we should stand up for our common values. We should champion education and settle for nothing less than the best. Our teachers should do the same and should not misuse their positions to promote their personal agendas.

Hat Tip to Zev Mo.

Monday, April 28, 2008

Dr. Chuman Participates in Human Rights Symposium

Dr. Joseph Chuman, Leader of the Ethical Culture Society of Bergen County, helped organize a human rights symposium, which was sponsored and hosted by FDU's Office of Global Learning in Teaneck on April 23. Read about the event and see Joe's picture here.

Monday, April 07, 2008

Charlton Heston - With You Part of Me Has Passed Away

Sometimes our psychic conflicts come unbidden. I am embarrassed to say it, but I have a Charlton Heston problem. As a kid, I loved Charlton Heston. Having sat before the big screen, I saw the Ten Commandments (the acting was so wooden it amazes me now that adults could have seen anything worthy in it. It confirms the speculations of sociologist, Theodore Roszak, that the 50s was the matrix from which the craziness of the 60s was spawned. The fifties really was a strange decade indeed!) and Ben-Hur so many times that the chiseled countenance and chiseled acting of Heston have been chiseled in my brain. He was an iconic figure bigger than life, and my early movie going has come back to haunt me.

Now that I am grown up, and Heston morphed into a far-right wing figure, whose politics represents everything anathema to me, I am left with two Charlton Hestons duking it out in my psyche.

Maybe it's just an exotic type of mourning.

Time will cure it, as it does - even if not completely - everything else.

Monday, March 31, 2008

A "Sunday School for Atheists" and Other Initiatives

Check out this Time Magazine article on the Sunday school of The Children's Program at the Humanist Community of Palo Alto, California. Here are a couple of other interesting humanist efforts in early education:

-The Ethical Community Charter Schools: charter elementary schools planning to open their doors in New York City and Jersey City in September, 2008 ("Every child will acquire the intellectual and ethical habits of mind that will foster success in education and society and the core values of ethical behavior");
-The Carl Sagan Academy: a middle school "profoundly committed to the belief that all people can, and do learn";

All of these programs had financial help from the Institute for Humanist Studies, which is the same organization that provided a grant to the Ethical Culture Society of Bergen County for our very popular television commercial.

Monday, March 24, 2008

PVHS Biology Text Book: True Science!


Ever wonder what type of science is taught in Bergen County high school biology classrooms? It was reassuring for this parent to find only science in Pearson Prentice Hall's online text book Biology: Exploring Life, which is used in the Pascack Valley Regional High School District (Montvale, Old Tappan, River Vale and Woodcliff Lake). My favorite is Unit 4: Exploring the History of Life. Check it out, if you're an evolution fan.

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Obama's Race Speech

It is difficult to avoid the conclusion that Barack Obama was compelled to give what will go down as an historic speech on race in America as a result of the exposure of his former pastor, Jeremiah Wright's, bombasts from the pulpit excoriating the racist character of American society. Political fortunes in America are lamentably made or broken by the power of sound bites, often repeated over and over again, like Big Brother's mantras chiseling into shape the consciousness of citizens who have access to no other conflicting truths.

What is clear is that Obama has attempted to soar over the issue of race in his elevating discourse of national reconciliation and striving for the common good. It is fascinating how little we have heard from the reverends Jackson and Sharpton, and we can only imagine that it is not an accident. We can suspect that the Obama camp has worked hard to ensure that they don't wax vociferous out of fear that turning Obama into a "race candidate" will frighten white voters and ditch what has been an historic and noble effort to transform the presidency and American politics.

Whether in the absence of the Wright imbroglio, Obama would have addressed the issue of racism in America, remains, for the moment, unknown. What is certain is that having done so, Obama has furthered his reputation as a grandiloquent orator, as politically astute, indeed, as brilliant, and if this ethicist can go out on a limb, morally authentic.

As a speech, Obama's address on race was a piece of soaring rhetoric which reaches the highest circles of American political oratory. Its dialectical oscillations from the personal to the political, from the microcosmic (the finale invoking the anecdote of the 23 year-old white woman, Ashley, inspiring an elderly black man to be politically involved, could bring the most battle hardened political veteran to tears) to the macrocosmic concerns about the economy, framed the immediate and far reaching issues which have made Obama's campaign so inspiring to so many.

But Obama's speech was also an act of unmasking, and therefore approached a level of candor that politicians flee from as from poison. Not only did he condemn Jeremiah Wright's Malcolm-X style rants (he referred to him twice as his "former pastor") but he gave a long overdue frontal assault on right-wing media clowns who "built entire careers unmasking bogus claims of racism while dismissing legitimate discussions of racial injustice and inequality as mere political correctness or reverse racism." Obama made explicit what everyone knows, viz., that blacks and whites when not in the company of the other will let fly racial sentiments that they would not publicly utter.

But Obama did something else which may well determine whether a great and intelligent speech (Could one imagine George W. Bush giving it?) will be politically persuasive, or remain compelling to only an elite corner of the voting public. He denounced Reverend Wright's views as being "divisive" and "distorted," while proclaiming him a beloved individual in his life. He asked his auditors to recall their loyalty to their own minister, priest or rabbi, even while dissenting from their occasional utterances. He invoked his love for his white grandmother, as he said he cringed at her occasional racist remarks. And he acknowledged the persistence of racism, while bidding his audience not to conclude that American society is static (as Wright's sermon's often implied).

In other words, Barack Obama has asked Americans to hold two contradictory ideas in their minds at the same time. Is this something that the American public, whose political sophistication has fallen beneath the bottom of the charts, can rise to entertain? If so, Barack Obama's speech may do more than nudge us beyond the "stalemate" of racial discourse to which he alludes. He may have pushed our nation ahead to a position of political seriousness.

Monday, March 03, 2008

Richard Dawkins to Lecture at New York Society


Renowned scientist and "new atheist" Richard Dawkins will lecture at the New York Society for Ethical Culture on Saturday, March 15, 2008. The event is sponsored in part by the New York Society. Read about it here.

Sunday, March 02, 2008

Ethical Society Without Walls

Of the more than 25 Ethical Culture Societies listed on the AEU website, The Ethical Society Without Walls is surely the most unique. This "virtual society" is for those who pine for an Ethical Culture Society but don't live near one, although all are welcome. Here you can participate in online discussions and courses, read Platforms, blogs and news, and even download early learning curricula, all from within the Ethical Culture fold.

This reporter participated in an ESWoW teleconference (a toll free number is available). The number of callers was not great, but it lasted as long as a
brick-and-mortar Platform and included participants from places like Massachusetts and Wisconsin. Leader Susan Rose lead a discussion on the pending addition of the AEU to the Secular Coalition for America (see earlier article on this blog), which occasionally digressed into pleasant anecdotes from all online. It felt good to participate and I had stuff to talk to others about after the phone call had ended.

Check it out this virtual Society. You won't be sorry.

Saturday, March 01, 2008

Perfect Together?

An invitation has been extended from the Secular Coalition for America to the AEU (the parent organization of the Ethical Culture Society of Bergen County) for the AEU to become a member organization of the SCA. These are the member organizations of the SCA:

And among the SCA Advisory Board members are these movement luminaries:

Make no mistake about it, this move would increase Ethical Culture's national visibility. If properly leveraged by the AEU and its member Societies, it seems likely this move would help interested humanists find their way to our doors. Click here to read more about it (you will need to register for free with the Ethical Society without Walls (ESWoW).

If you are a member of the Ethical Culture Society of Bergen County, or any other chapter, this affects you. Click Comments (below) to let us know your thoughts.

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Sanctuary Benefit, An Inspiring Event

On Sunday, February 24, The Bergen County Sanctuary for Asylum Seekers, held a major benefit dinner to support its cause. The Sanctuary project, perhaps the only one of its type in the New York metropolitan area, is dedicated to providing a comprehensive roster of services, inclusive of housing, medical care and education, to people fleeing political persecution in other countries and who come to the US seeking a safe haven. They are treated badly, including for those who flee without proper documentation, imprisonment for sometimes up to four yours. In short, our country now criminalizes those coming here seeking safety.

The dinner featured the blue grass group, Triple Play, and the key note speaker, Dr. Allen Keller. Dr. Keller is the founder and director of the Bellevue/NYU Program for Survivors of Torture, one the truly great human rights projects in New York City. Dr. Keller was inspiring, and laudatory about the work of the Bergen County Sanctuary.

The Bergen County Sanctuary Committee is comprised of six area congregations, and other organizations. It is now a 501 (c)3 non-profit organization. It was founded out of the Ethical Culture Society in Teaneck about two years ago.

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

New Survey Finds Significant Growth of the "Unaffiliated"

The New York Times on February 26th reported that a new, exhaustive survey by the Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life found a marked increase in those who claim no religious affiliation. The "U.S. Religious Landscape Survey" found that the unaffiliated now comprise 16.1% of all American adults. In the 1980s only five to eight per cent of Americans identified as unaffiliated, making the growth rate of the unaffiliated the largest of any religious group. Moreover, when the figures are broken down by age, the survey found that fully one quarter of Americans between the ages of 18 and 29 identify as unaffiliated, signaling a growth of this sector in the future.

This sounds promising for Ethical Culture in that the pool from which we draw would seem to be dramatically expanding. However, as with all broad surveys, the picture is more complex. When the 16.1% of unaffiliated is parsed, a more subtle picture emerges. 5.8% of the American population with the unaffiliated group state that religion remains very important to them. 1.6% of all American adults are atheists, 2.4% agnostic and 6.3% secular unaffiliated.

Overall the survey depicts an American religious marketplace which is extraordinarily fluid and competitive with a great deal of religious switching. In fact, it is shown that 26% of all Americans have left the faith in which they were raised for another or have joined the unaffiliated.

Does the growth of the unaffiliated sector augur well for the growth of Ethical Culture? At first glance we would think so. But we need recall that although Ethical Culture appeals to secular people, agnostics and atheists most of all, it remains a positive affiliation. Have those who have left traditional religions done so because of the content of those religions, or because the idea of affiliation itself has become burdensome? If the former, the pool from which we draw has expanded. If the latter, maybe not. Or, perhaps, many of the switchers are likely to move directly from their traditional affiliation to affiliation with Ethical Culture without passing through the unaffiliated category. We don't know, and the survey cannot tell us that. But overall, the growth of those who have become unaffiliated does highlight the capacity for choice, growing disenchantment with traditional religion and, on its face, seems to be a challenging and promising shift in American demography.

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

"But People Can Believe What They Want"


Those are the words of Father Casimiro Roca of the Santuario de Chimayo, a New Mexico church known as the Lourdes of America. A NY Times article (Chimayo Journal: A Pastor Begs to Differ With Flock on Miracles) tells of the faithful who visit this holy shrine to take dirt they believe to be blessed with miraculous powers from a hole in the church floor. How can tens of thousands take dirt from the hole without endangering the building?

Simple, and it's neither a miracle nor a secret. A caretaker fills the hole with trucked in dirt so believers can take the dirt to "eat it, brew it in tea or rub it on the afflicted body area." Father Roca, who has ministered the shrine for 50 years, readily admits that the dirt is not miraculous and does not try to hide the fact that it is transported in to fill the hole. Yet pilgrims believe otherwise.

People want to believe. Common sense, and in this case the nearest sympathetic authoritative figure, cannot dissuade the populace from this fatuous attitude. Believing, of course, makes it neither true nor sensible. Yet with believing comes solace, warmth and inner peace.

Anecdotal evidence implies that parts of the educated world such as Australia and northern Europe, where major religions play a significantly smaller cultural role than in the U.S., have a correspondingly larger population of believers in alien visitations, occultism, fairies, gnomes and other such nonsense. One hears these suppositions and can't help but wonder if the human physiology dictates that a majority of us value something other than truth to be most important.

As the good Father said, people can believe what they want.

Sunday, February 17, 2008

"We Do Not Torture"

Ethical Culture is committed to preserving the dignity of the person. Nothing can be more violative of dignity than torture, and any humanist axiomatically needs to oppose torture absolutely.

In the human rights culture the ban on torture is the only one which is absolute, and while most countries practice torture as a matter of policy, as does the United States, the matter of torture has never been elevated to a public or political debate, a debate which this human rights activist finds obscene.

Last week, the Senate passed legislation on torture to prevent the CIA from using "harsh interrogation techniques," bringing our premier spy agency is line with what is permissible by the armed forces. Some Democrats, not wanting to appear soft on national security (as if torturing our enemies will make us more secure), in their usual cowardly manner, caved, and supported this shameful and hideous legislation.

George Bush has declared that he will veto the legislation.

Bush has publicly declared that the United States does not use torture. Since 9/11, he has played a strange political game with Congress and the courts in a successful effort to preserve the dubious right of the United States, and the Commander in Chief, to employ torture if in his magisterial view it is required.

His motives seem elusive, leaving one to conclude that with the United States' use of torture he is sending a message to the rest of the world, that if you mess with us, we will do awful things to you.

Indeed, under Bush, torture has not become the unacceptable exception to American policy; we have created a culture of torture -- Baghram, Abu Graib, Guantanamo, secret prisons, extraordinary rendition. Even Canada has now officially named the United States as a country which employs tortures as a matter of routine.

This willingness to sink to barbarism presents itself to the world not as a sign of strength, but as the desperate cry of a wounded giant. As a matter of policy, it leaves the United States less secure, not more.

Let us hope that with a new administration, this blight on America's image and self-image will be erased, and that ethical values will be restored to American foreign policy.

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Billboard Activist to Appear at Society

Jan Meshon of FreethoughtAction, the organization that has erected the "Don't believe in God? You are not alone" billboard on the NJ Turnpike in Ridgefield, will speak briefly about the billboard campaign immediately following Kate Lovelady's February 24th Platform address at the Bergen Society Meeting House. See the earlier entries in this blog (1st entry; 2nd entry) for more details.

Diana Gross in "Adam and Eve"

Posted by Ken Karp on behalf of Bob Gordon. Also, see the NV Suburbanite's coverage.


It was quite a treat. Dare I say “unexpected?” On Sunday, February 10, the Teaneck New Theater presented a musical, based upon a short story by Mark Twain: The Diary of Adam and Eve. There are two principal actors (charmingly portraying Adam and Eve) and three singers who sometimes sing ensemble and often perform solos. The strongest, clearest, nicest, most musical (and well-trained) voice was that of our own Diana Weber Gross. Not only that, she was the musical director as well. And she also has the distinction of having chosen and doing the sound effects, to signify the passage of the days in the Garden of Eden – it was almost Spike Jones-ish, but fitting, as we learned later.

The director and performers asked the audience for questions at play’s end. These came haltingly at first, then more readily. They asked about the staging, the symbolism (especially the sound effects), how the musical numbers were chosen and also evidenced emotional reactions to the story, which was as humorous as you might expect from Mark Twain, until the rather sad ending.

But it was excellent entertainment!

The Diary of Adam and Eve, 'translated' by Mark Twain, is Twain’s humorous look at the very first male-female relationship: how it began, how it evolved and how it matured. This is a witty, playful and ultimately touching portrait of the very first couple as they slowly begin to know, accept and love one another. It’s also an insightful and delightful take on how much, and how little, has changed in the interaction between the sexes. Despite their many differences, Adam eventually realizes he cannot do without Eve. She, of course, knew that all along. Music is integrated into the play to complete TNT’s tribute to Valentine’s Day.

Tickets for The Diary of Adam & Eve are $12; $10 for students and seniors; and $8 for theatre parties of 10 or more. For reservations and information, call TNT at 201.692.0200.

I was tempted to run this story in the March issue of Focus when I realized that if I circulated it this week as well, you would have an opportunity to attend one of the remaining 3 performances, which come up this weekend, at St. Mark’s Episcopal Church, 118 Chadwick Road, Teaneck (behind Holy Name Hospital).

Friday, at 8pm …. Saturday, at 8 pm …. Sunday, at 3pm.

Bob Gordon

Monday, February 11, 2008

A Tree Falls in Teaneck

While sitting in my car on Sunday afternoon awaiting the return of the Ethical Culture Sunday school trip from a nearby Islamic Center, winds suddenly whipped and snow squalls rapidly whitened the ground. A loud crack sounded outside the car and I watched a 50' pine topple to the ground and land harmlessly some 10 or 15 feet from where I sat. It completely blocked the entrance to our small parking lot, trapping four vehicles inside and slightly bending the Ethical Culture sign at the lot entrance. It caused no damage or injuries otherwise.

Ten miles to the north a tall oak fell across my backyard, victim to a similar unexpected gust and emitter of a similar loud crack. Moments before, the family dog Kipling had barked to be let in at the back door, thereby safely avoiding a possible confrontation he couldn't have won.

It must have been our lucky day. The following is an account of the incident from Bob Gordon, President of the Ethical Culture Society of Bergen County, as well as a member of the building committee. Photos are courtesy Leigh Roumila:



To All:

The Society suffered what has turned out to be a minor calamity today (Sunday), but could have been disastrous. Sometime around 4 pm, the wind brought down a huge pine tree on our property. I estimate that the part that fell was 50 feet, or more, in length. The tree was near the cyclone fence, in the area between the entryway walks and the driveway. It fell diagonally, towards the neighbor to the east, but across the driveway and angled towards the street. It actually reached to the curbing of the street.

Had it fallen more directly onto North Street, it would have crushed the car parked at the curb, in which Ken Karp was sitting, awaiting his daughter's leaving a meeting at the building.

Had it fallen in other directions, it could have totalled ALL the cars in the parking lot, besides destroying the fences.

Had someone been on the sidewalk where it came down, there would have been a death!!

Fortunately, there was no property damage or injury, except for a crimp in the sign that warns non-members not to park in our lot.

The tree itself looks healthy when you examine the stump; it must have been a freak gust that hit it just so. There had been a snow squall about that time.

Many people pitched in to clear the parking lot blockage and other debris. Leigh and Tayeb Roumila plus Issa and Liam were there ... Tayeb with his chain saw. Susan Lesh and son Ben, helped as well, including Ken and Maddie Karp, using loppers and muscles to cut and drag the limbs to a pile out of the way. And I added my own chain saw/muscle power to the mix.

We are left with massive mounds of boughs and large lengths of the tree body to reduce in size and dispose of.

As it happened, there was a group of Unitarians meeting at the building this afternoon, whose cars were trapped in the parking lot until we cleared it. They had failed to leave their phone numbers, so could not be told when the exit got cleared.

Despite the loss of the beautiful tree, we are collectively extravagantly grateful that there were no injuries or loss of property!!!! I shudder to think of what might have happened.

Thanks to everyone who helped with the cleanup. Once the power tools were available, it went very quickly.

Bob

PS: If another calamity seems imminent, I am going to hang close to Ken Karp.